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Hearty Snippet

VDay was spent home this year.  After 10 years of hearts day dates with the hubbs, I was homebound.  I couldn’t go very far if I wanted to anyway – at this stage of motherhood, I need to be within a 10-minute drive from home at all times.

But that wasn’t the reason I was stuck at home.  T was on a business trip yesterday and he had to spend the night.  He did cook up something special the evening before, though.  Since his airsoft buds tend to drop by from time to time, it’s not unusual for T to be out late and I didn’t think much when I noticed he was MIA again.  He wasn’t out long but it was close to midnight when he came home – with flowers and a big box of pizza!  Zee was still awake (where this boy gets the energy, I don’t know) so we had quite a pre-VDay blast sitting on the floor with huge slices of Mama Maria’s and Coke.  Hey, we had our Valentines date after all!

Huwaat??!!

… I have a blog? *funny cartoon-like double, no triple, silly head shake*

Teehee, I should be guilty, shouldn’t I? Tell you what, I’ll let you in on a little secret: I am! September — of last year, duh! — being the last post — incomplete too, may I add, double duh! — I so am guilty!

I’m still reeling over why I keep putting this off. Let’s see if I can resurrect some drafts and spruce ‘em up for posting.

In the meantime, Happy Valentines Day! Love abounds and I am feeling it!

My Mama turned 50 yesterday. Save for family dinner, there were no frills and fuss, just like she wanted it.

My sibs and I couldn’t pull out The Surprise yesterday, though. She had a few of her friends over for afternoon munchies – friends from The Poo’s grade school – plus she spent the better part of the morning baking (finally used the new oven!). and don’t forget the little craft shop she’s pouring heart and soul into. Weekdays are always hectic.

Today though, my sister got her to put work down so we could spring our surprise into action. She had to agree to leave her workshop first, of course, so she was skeptical about being asked to cancel her afternoon appointments. She bargained by begging off till early evening; didn’t I say weekdays were her hectic?

The surprise? Spa treatment. She was booked for a facial, body massage, foot scrub, the works. About three hours of pampering bliss. Happy Birthday, Ma!

(My sister has the pictures, I’ll post a few when I get hold of her.)

Oh yeah, this would also be a good time to do this meme. (I’m neck deep in meme backlogs, LOL!). Tagged by Christianne a couple of weeks back after she revealed juicy tidbits about her own mom, let’s see if I can reveal 10 random things about Mama.

1. Mama is the bravest soul I know. This has to be No. 1. You’ll believe me once you’ve read this.

2. She’s my original jill-of-all-trades. A’s in housekeeping is a given, of course, she’s Mom. But she’s also an ace at sewing, knitting, crochet, cross stitching, rug-making, ceramics, decoupage, wood carving, painting, beadwork, all sorts of crafts, you name it, she’s bound to have dabbled in it. She even knows a little carpentry here and there, simple plumbing, and though I haven’t yet seen her tackle a minor electrical job, I wouldn’t be surprised if she knew how.

3. She used to make our clothes when we were little. My sister and I grew up with a lot of identical outfits. She doesn’t have formal training in sewing but those home ec classes paid off. We had sailor frocks, playsuits, party dresses, pajamas even. Her creations were decent enough plus you couldn’t be choosy in Zambia anyway since there weren’t much clothing choices in those days. Once, when her machine broke down and my costume for a school play was needed the next morning, she hand-sewed it without sleeping a wink.

4. She was my first piano teacher!

5. Like most of the Pinoy bloggers who’ve done this meme about their moms, my Mama is also very into telenovelas. There was a time she was into radio drama as well, you know, the ones in Bisaya. And if there was a telenovela she fancied on this channel, but it clashed with another one she liked on a different station, she can effortlessly switch and watch and not get lost. No cares for the network wars!

6. She has only worn one shade of lipstick since forever: red.

7. She is the 12th in a family of 14 kids. Yeah, you don’t have to tell me my grandparents were busy people.

*Update* October 14, 200: Sorry, it took a while - you’ll know why here.

8. She used to make us pluck the few white hairs that had started showing up some years back. She loved how the tweezing would lull her to sleep but we often used to find excuses to get out on sitting for at least an hour and messing around with her hair. It was boring - the shites were so few and the job was straining to the neck. She had to resort to paying us - ok, bribing -, an idea she herself thought up out of desperation, probably, but it provided us a few more pesos in addition to allowance. Plus we grumbled less.

Coklots so naughty, heehee

I held Baby Z’s hand one evening as we walked down the garden path back home. A lone roach hurriedly scurried away as we neared.

I quickly pointed. “Whoa, a cockroach!” While a little afraid it would fly right at us (shudder), I wanted him to see and know as much as he possibly could.

He looked up at me and with and with all seriousness (brows slightly frowning), he says, “The coklots issa naughty boy, noh?”

“Oh yes,” I smiled.

Deep down I was roaring with laughter. They sure say the darnest things. But I couldn’t laugh out loud at him; coming from a two year old that still babbles incoherently most of the time, a statement like that was big.

How I love my baby! :D

When Christianne uploaded some Sesame Street silly songs in her Multiply account last year, I did not hesitate in making a copy. Thanks, X!! When I played the set for Baby Zee, it was obvious his fave was The Honker-Duckie-Dinger Jamboree. He made us play it over and over again until we all had LSS. The fact that he had a rubber duckie too, helped heaps in deciding which among the silly tunes ranked high in his book.

I lurve Sesame Street. When we were growing up in Zambia, there was only one channel, can you believe that? And airings were only from afternoons up to 11pm, if I remember right. Sesame Street was among the children’s shows they aired in the afternoons and it wasn’t hard to love it even if there weren’t any other choices. Except Betamax maybe, but that’s different. :D

And I remember The Honker-Duckie-Dinger Jamboree very well. I wasn’t a really big fan of Ernie but throw in Rubber Duckie, the Honkers and the Dingers and the song was just too infectious.

Too bad Sesame Street doesn’t show here in the Philippines. Or if it does, I don’t know what channel. So far, the only kiddie channels I allow for Baby Zee viewing are the preschooler segments of Nickelodeon (Nick, Jr.) and Disney Channel (Disney Playhouse). I would love for him to watch Sesame Street too, though.

Anyway, the song from Christianne was the only one we could play since we got hold of a copy and Baby Zee made up this silly dance move with his own rubber duckie that I have yet to record. The song hasn’t had decent rest for many months, Zee enjoys it that much. Today, I found Ernie, the Honkers and the Dingers singing it on YouTube! Yay, he finally got to see Ernie and the gang! This made him happy to the 100th degree! And the dance moves haven’t changed one bit!

I dunno if I should regret showing it to him (mommy witch coming out) because I’ve been replaying the vid for hours already. Thankfully not hours straight, but almost. Everytime I’m at the computer, he gets up from playing and shouts for the Jamboree song.

Now it’s time to Honkerize every one of you. :P

Saturday to Saturday

I’ve been neglecting my blog. :( Shame on me!

From last Saturday to today:

  • While at the mall last weekend, we saw this big set-up of Homer, Marge, Lisa, Bart and Maggie.  Just had to have Baby Zee’s pic taken. :D  Look at him, he’s so tiny beside the Simpson Family.

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  • Midweek, we attended a party at McDonald’s. They had the Power Rangers theme, so the kids morphed into superhero sans the brightly colored spandex power suit.

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  • Friday night, the hubbs surprised me with flowers (actually, a single white rose with some baby’s breath) and cheesecake. For what reason, I have no idea. He was just being sweet. Awww. Swoon.

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  • Today, Saturday morning, cheescake after breakfast! Yummy!

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Happy Saturday, everyone!

Little boy blue

About the major news, yeah I haven’t forgotten about that. I was supposed to blog about it weeks and weeks ago, especially since I’m being bugged about it everywhere :D , but I’ve been pretty busy. Last week, though, I was gonna post the news but something unexpected happened so I have to change some bits and pieces of the story. So pardon me again while I edit some of the kinks, all right?

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My 6-year old niece, who we’ll call Prin-chin Pootee, gave us the fright of our lives yesterday afternoon. We were at my folks’ kitchen, having a snack with our nanny Mama R. Baby Zee was playing with my niece in the upstairs playroom, my Dad keeping an eye on them. Suddenly The Poo rushed downstairs to declare in one long breath, “Mommy, I think you better go see Baby Zee! He’s lying on the floor and his face is all blue!”

Floor. Lying. Blue. Words no mother should have to hear in one sentence.

Mama R and I wasted no time in rushing upstairs, two three steps at a time, The Poo leading the way. My Mom was in her macramé workshop when she heard the commotion so she too followed us up the stairs. We were expecting the worst when only silence greeted us at the second floor. Poo rushed into her room where she had last left her little cousin. But no Baby Z in sight, only Poo’s blue school uniform on the floor with toys scattered everywhere. Mama R rushed into the playroom. Since it was the biggest of the bedrooms, it took a while to do a full over but he wasn’t there either! I do not get nervous easily but this time I panicked, and Mama R whose nerves get the better of her 10 times more than the average nervous person, was letting out little screams every 20 seconds. When Mom opened the door to their bedroom, there he was, sitting happily on the bed while my dad was doing some paperwork on the desk.

Thank goodness, thank goodness, thank goodness!

He climbed down from the bed, his belly jiggling from all the giggling he was making like nothing in the world was ever wrong. Silly billy goat gruff! I was just so thankful he was all right.

S’matter of fact, his face was really blue. The Poo told Dad first, of course, but seeing that they were in no danger, went back to his paperwork. That’s when she rushed downstairs to tell us. Closer inspection showed that some dye from The Poo’s dark blue school skirt must’ve transferred to his skin. I have no idea how that came to be, and The Poo had a rather hard time explaining so too, so I guess we’ll let that be for the moment. We had to sit with her for a while to let her know that even if it wasn’t a real emergency, she did the right thing by telling. I’m sure she was worried for bringing about all this excitement and she was quite relieved to hear that we weren’t mad at all. Good thing there was no harm done, except maybe a temporary increase in blood pressure for three adults.

It did add spice to what would have been an ordinary afternoon, though. The Poo had a mighty fine tale to tell at the dinner table that night, aided of course, by the belly-jiggling, babbling, giggling, Baby Zee.

Busy, busy…

Been busy these past few days. As in. Back to regular programming in… oh, I don’t know.

Oh yeah, I’ll get to those meme’s soon, ok Daddy Forever and iMom?

And, and, and… I have major news.

I mean, MAJOR. Abangan!

*IRL - in real life

Up until she finally texted, “We’re here! [smiley, smiley]” did I do a whoopee! I’ve shared many a thought with purpleheadd07 at various threads of the Pinoy Exchange Forums but I’ve gotten to know more about the person behind the screen handle at the Parenting Thread, specifically on our little PEX nook called Mommies’ Corner.

Mommies’ Corner I discovered on PEx almost 2 years ago. The thread had just started, Baby Z was 7 months going on 8 that time. Being a new mommy, I was delighted there was a venue for mothers to share experiences and stories.

Of course, purpleheadd07 and I weren’t friends off the bat. I only took notice of her and about seven to ten other mommies/ moms-to-be (she was expecting that time, too) when we began hanging out at Mommies’ Corner more than we did at other threads. As we exchanged thoughts on expecting, or being a mommy, or ranting about whatever, giving and taking advice, congratulating and welcoming new births, bragging about our kids, etc., we got to know more about the persons behind the screen names. Soon enough, we were exchanging names and interacting more outside PEx through sharing pictures, an email group, linking up Friendsters and blogs, exchanging cellphone numbers and talking a lot on instant messaging. Somehow I still can’t quite shake this one time I literally dropped work because there were about 10 of us mommies talking and getting rowdy at an IM group conference. It was hours and hours after we called it quits. Oops, my bad, I slipped a work booboo! (Boss, it was a Friday… and there was so little work, I swear… and I made up for it, I swear!)

I’ve missed so many eyeballs (face to face meets) already! Main reason is that I live outside Manila. From the first EB last year where only six of them were able to make it (purpleheadd07 included), to the time the kids and babies got to meet, to other EBs arranged whenever a mommy online friend from abroad comes home, up to all the other little spur-of-the-moment meet-ups between a few that happen in between, I believe the mommies have formed and sealed a connection that began with hi-hellos on an online forum. I have yet to meet the other mommies in person, but that doesn’t mean my interaction with them hasn’t been real. For close to 2 years, we’ve been witness how our kids are growing so fast, and we’ve taken peeks at how are lives are like through continuous online meets at PEx and blogs. I am genuinely concerned for the well-being of these moms and their kids just as much as I am for my own. It’s like having lots of sisters and being an aunt to so many nieces and nephews.

purpleheadd07 is quite the traveler. She lives to travel – well, up until she had her bouncing baby Xan, anyway. Now she lives for Xan. Still, it seems she’s been everywhere! Inggit. Anyway, she came over for work but it was also kinda like a vacation thingy because she’s been island hopping in the Visayas with her entourage (her bro, her bro’s girlfriend and her best friend) since last week. They’ve been climbing mountains, scouring beaches bikini-clad (inggit din), checking out happening night spots, and pigging out on food everywhere. Man!

Saturday they arrived here. Talk about feeling giddy. I’ve been craving an EB ever since I saw pics of the first meet. And pics of the Mommies and Kids Christmas Party last year, boohoo. But now I’ve finally met purpleheadd07! I knew her the instant we locked eyes at the mall but she waved first. And it’s been dinner after dinner after dinner since. And dinner again tonight. She is heading back to Manila tomorrow. I’ve known her as a cool chick online and yes, yes, she rocks IRL, too! She’s smart and confident, she talks a lot, she’s so collected and she is just so cool. Sharing thought after thought after thought. So nice meeting her, I hope she feels the same. Maybe not about the cool and collected part, but I hope she thought it was nice meeting me, too.

Look who’s happy to see online friends meeting at last.

Another time, I’m am hoping to meet the rest of my online mommy friends. You chicks know who you are.

Lastly, unmask this purple-loving sun worshiper by getting to know her over at Purple Thoughts.

My MIL and SIL asked if Baby Zee could spend the night. They must miss the little tyke a lot since we don’t come visit very often. Anyway, Daddy T said yes and they picked him up Saturday afternoon.

Wow, a weekend with no baby. Of course, we went out on a date! Have some more nshima>

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